Saturday, 7 December 2013

Festive Countdown Day 5 and 6

Before I write about our festive activities, one turned out to be very special, I wanted to show a present idea I had for one of my teenage cousins.
The idea came to me way back in April when I saw a pack of tissues (4) which were decorated just like the packaging on the Love Heart sweets (1). One a theme had been established I kept my eye out for things wherever I went. I saw the address book next(3) and then during the summer I was in Wilkinsons chekcing out their stationery and picked up a set of mini erasers (6). I really wanted to get some kind of cosmetic/smellies set with the same packaging and although they are available they didn't fit into my budget. That may sound mean as they were only £5.00 but the agreed present budget between me and my aunt is £5.00, otherwise costs just spiral.
I was able to find a set of nail varnish in Love Heart shades which was labelled as Nail Candy (2) and a set of 3 lip gloss flavours in a box (5) labelled as Sweet Crush, so they were along the same kind of lines.



Now to Day 5. This was a great day in our festive countdown.
In the morning we left a box of cards on the table so when S came home from school she could sit down and write out all the cards she wanted to send to friends and teachers.
When I came home from work I asked her to write out a couple like the one below.



I had to go shopping that evening and the plan was that whilst we were having our shopping scanned through we would ask our cashier what their favourite bar of chocolate was, S would pop off to the confectionery aisle and get it, then once we had paid for it hand it over and wish the person serving us a Merry Christmas. S was excited about this Random Act of Kindness.
We struck up a conversation with our cashier and S asked her (she was called Melissa) 'what's your favourite chocolate bar?' only to be told she didn't eat chocolate as she didn't like it!
So I asked what she liked as a treat instead and she said her most favourite thing was a bag of Roast Beef flavour Monster Munch. S went off to find it. The cashier looked at me and asked what was happening, I said just wait and see and she asked with a big smile 'Is it Christmas?' When S came back with the crisps the cashier sent her off again to find some sweets she would like.
We paid for the shopping, S handed over the card and crisps and then the cashier asked us to wait whilst she paid for the sweets and then handed them over to S and wished her a Happy Christmas.
The grin on S's face as we left was so huge. Not only had she enjoyed carrying out a random act of kindness and in doing so made the cashier happy, she was genuinely surprised and delighted when she was given something in return. I thanked the cashier as well and said it hadn't been necessary as we were doing this to teach the children the importance and pleasure in giving but she said she wanted to return the gesture.
We plan on doing it again somewhere else before the countdown ends.

Day 6 being Friday we needed something relaxing so it was decided we would watch a Christmas movie we had never seen before and Arthur Christmas was chosen.
It's a really lovely movie, Bill Nighy as the voice of Grand Santa was outstanding, it certainly made me look forward to Christmas eve all the more.


11 comments:

Kathy said...

A random act of kindness - what a lovely idea!
I saw Arthur Christmas with my class for a Christmas treat. We're going to see Frozen this year. This is the only way I get to see children's films these days.
Have a lovely week!

Jo said...

I love that random act of kindness, you're teaching your children some really important things. I've never heard of Arthur Christmas, I'll have to watch out for that one. Great present idea with the Love Hearts. You come up with some great themed gifts.

Louise said...

Your random act of kindness idea is just lovely! The gift idea for a teenager is good too - you are such a brilliant gift buyer!

Diane said...

I don't think many people teach children how good "giving" can feel - that is such a great idea Lisa. You are lovely lovely lovely xxxxx

BadPenny said...

What a special collection of themed gifts you found; so thoughtful.

That's a lovely warming story & glad S had fun with her random act of kindness.
Our CO OP staff are all lovely x

Jay said...

Oh Lisa that just made me cry! (For some reason I'm a bit emotional at the moment!)what a lovely idea and a great lesson for the children. Well done!

Mac n' Janet said...

What a wonderful idea! And giving is so much better than receiving, that's why I love Christmas!

Mitzi said...

Looks like you had a great week. Not sure that I have seen this movie. I will have to check in number 3's collection to see if he has it and may be see if he will spend time with his old mum to watch it.

Gillian said...

I just love your random act of kindness idea, and how wonderful for S that it be reciprocated by such a warm and lovely person. x

josiecrafter said...

Dear Lisa
This is wonderful ! You are an amazing Mother! I love the idea of random acts of kindness at Christmas-time, well, anytime really, but it seems so special now when everyone is run ragged in the lead up to the big day. You are so kind :-)
And I love the Love Hearts themed gift - such a good idea. We're sticking to a £5 budget too … there's such a lot of nieces and nephews in our family. But it's been fun to find quirky and nice things within that price range.
Thanks for popping over to my blog,
I hope this Advent continues to be a good one for you,
xxx

Selfsewn said...

Love it!!!!! You are THE best Mum and so thoughtful, its no wonder why your kids are so well mannered xxxxxxx